August 22, 2011

[Fangirl] Kpop and Non-Kpop Fans.My Opinion.

assalamualaikum and hey hey peeps
selamat malam :)



tonight i tergerak nak post something about all of these "i'm a kpop fan" and "i hate kpop"issue.
first of all, i'm writing this with no angry feeling towards non-kpop fans, neither agreeing with the antis too
i'm here to write a defense on every little thing people might be liking in this world.
well, the world is full of different opinionated people
different ways of being raised, different level of exposure on different things, different taste and interest
it's normal

but let me, narrow down the topic towards
the 'kpop fan' versus the 'kpop antis' issue

here we go.
taking an example, back then before kpop culture and craze become so hot in our country
it has already existed, the difference is, just a few know about it
but now, since the exposure become so big, all this fuss about i hate kpop and i'm freaking love kpop exist 

but i have a big question mark here
why do you have to judge?
i mean, since everyone is different
what is working on their mind is different too

something that smells good to A could be a stinking torture to B (example: durian)
something that sounds calming to C could bore D to death (example: beethoven symphony)
something that excite E could be just another 'nahhhh' thing for F (example: video games)


even identical twins are different
how could us, who was raised by different parents, different surroundings could agree on the same thing.

so this is where 'UNDERSTANDING' comes and plays a role

you might not like something but you cannot force another person to not liking it too
if everyone is the same, wouldn't we want to be the same thing, like to eat the same thing and fall in love with the same person


this is what we call a 'balance'
it's a nature thing

so
if you really hated kpop(example) and cannot bear to hear anything about it
just closed your eyes, shut your eyes anywhere around it
don't go and purposely trying to find a fault in it

well, try to be a bit clever
sarcasm might work sometimes
but stupid sarcasm added with ridiculous words
will not only make you a jerk or a bitch
it will also make you a heartless person

instead, let it be
just like "elvis presley the legendary" or "michael jackson the awesome" era
it will somehow fade with time
it's how the universe work
replacing old things with new one
so why fret like a baby?

why making such a big fuss about it?

you know, before this
if i ever came across anything like 'haters' or 'antis'
i'll be steaming and boiling and cursing

but now i think it's better to shut my mouth rather than saying nasty thing
if i do, it makes me no difference than them
instead, i would rather enjoy the things i love


because it is better to be something you actually are than something you are actually not

and you see
even if you try to convince them
if they made up their mind, it would takes forever to make them agree with you
i didn't say it is impossible, but it's near.

and if you fight back
well the result ain't be pretty either

throwing back stone to people who throw stones at you
doesn't make the fights end
it will make you both injured and in pain

live in your ways
as long it's not corrupted , or completely wrong
by law or by religion :)


and hey it's the fasting month, let's be forgiving and kind-hearted
it won't hurt you,it might as well makes you feel much better
be kind, and who knows, people might be kind to you. 
someday ^3<

last but not least
even if you're hurt
try faking a smile wouldn't make it worst
at least, people around you will be happy thinking that you are happy

so till then, annyeong ^^ byeong~byeong

4 comments:

  1. Loved this! Terbaek!!
    "something that smells good to A could be a stinking torture to B (example: durian)
    something that sounds calming to C could bore D to death (example: beethoven symphony)
    something that excite E could be just another 'nahhhh' thing for F (example: video games)"

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